What I Look for In A Client

If you’re thinking about scheduling a date with an escort, you might have certain characteristic that you seek out consciously (dark hair, blonde, petite, Amazonian, dominant, funny, etc. etc.) and some that you seek out unconsciously that are still just as important (kind, prompt with email responses, adventurous, etc.)

It’s the second group – those traits that draw us in without us even knowing, the qualities that are sometimes the hardest to describe – that are often the most important.

Considering I am not cold calling potential clients for dinner dates, the people who contact me have run the gamut in terms of height, body type, nationality or race, gender, sexual proclivities, age, hair style, occupation, education level, hobbies, etc. etc. And even though everyone seems different physically, they have a lot in common.  

My ideal client can be described this way: kind, affectionate in their words and actions, respects my boundaries (physical, emotional, intimate), willingly screens and sends the appropriate deposit. The people who choose to spend time with me are agreeable, friendly, and fun to talk to. They have an open heart and open mind and relish spending time with equally open-minded and open-hearted people. They love to share: food, ideas, experiences.

When you’re as lucky as I have been to spend time with people like this, you realize that the physical traits don’t define us as much as we think they do. We as humans are so much more complex than the data on our driver’s license or the information on our LinkedIn. I leave every date learning something new. I leave every date better than when I arrived.

I feel very lucky to consistently find the kind of clients that I’m looking for. If you’ve made it this far, you’re probably one of these people, right? So what’s stopping you? And more importantly, what’s for dessert?